Psychogeography, the PhD and …

I am excited and happy to say that research on the PhD. is moving along.    I have found and confirmed the three reserves where I will be audio and video recording lions (two in South Africa and one in Kenya).   I went to the first of the three and scouted my first location within.     I have had my first “lesson” on sound recording; Next Saturday I am flying north to meet with a woman who owns the largest cage-free primate sanctuary in the world to discuss a television series.  

I wrote this six days ago.

Three days ago something happened that has left me, us, my family devastated.  I have decided to continue to write.  I hope it will help me to bring some order to the chaos.

Today, I will be brief.  Our dear, sweet, joyous friend from Scicli, Andrea, died in our home very early Saturday morning.   I will post more.   Now I must sleep.


Everyone Has A Gun (and Negligent Parenting)

Everyone Has A Gun and Negligent Parenting



Simon and Annette came to Cape Town to celebrate Kieran’s 15th birthday.  We went for a wonderful lunch after which the kids piled into the back of the bucky (AKA the back of a pickup truck).  You’d think Santa came early.   The next day the kids were still raving about how fun it was to drive from the restaurant to our home away from home (all of about ten minutes) in the pickup truck.

I noted that this was a very positive thing.  It was something that they were allowed to try in Africa that they would never have been allowed to try anywhere else.  I asked them why they thought that was.

“Easy!” they said.   “There are lots of poor people in South Africa who can’t afford their own truck so they all chip in and get one truck that they share.”

Canada on the other hand is “too safety oriented.”

But the best answer was when I asked them about why they wouldn’t be allowed to do this in the United States.

“Everyone has a gun there so it is a way to protect people from getting shot because you are more vulnerable to getting shot in the back, out in the open like that.”

Classic.  Telling.  Disturbed.

The Birthday Boy
The Birthday Boy

Simon: Father of the Birthday Boy
Simon : Father of the Birthday Boy


Annette and Simon
Annette and Simon

Road Trip: Walking With Ostrich

We decided it was time to get out of our neighbourhood and explore so we drove three hours somewhere and landed in the middle of the Karoo.  The Karoo is like a desert with more water.  From what I can see the defining feature is that there are more shrubs than cacti but a real definition can be found here: The Karoo Definition .

The camp consisted of several self catering cottages and was completely off the grid.   We kept the fire going as long as possible.  We did puzzles by dim light.  We played ping pong, darts and pool in the game hut.  They even had a rudimentary 9 hole course which was good for hours upon hours of entertainment.   But the highlight for three of us was the hike.

Sean said it was quite possibly the best hike he has ever been on.

Sean, Coco and I set out for a hike  around three in the afternoon.    Not long after we found the path, we heard a loud clicking sound.  We turned to find an ostrich on the path behind us.


As I explained/made up, most paths in the bush are made by animals first so the ostrich was probably just using the path in the same way that we were — to get somewhere.   It was making an odd clicking sound and stretching out its wings.

An ostrich up close at a petting zoo or an ostrich farm is large, but when it is extends its wings and starts clucking loudly all the while walking directly toward you, “large” doesn’t do it justice.  It was massive.  Prehistoric.  And frightening.  Being the self proclaimed expert on animals, I told everyone not to worry,  not to make eye contact, and to give it room to pass.     I said we were likely infringing on its territory and perhaps there was even a nest nearby.    It clucked and flapped toward us at a menacing pace then gently breezed past us and  plopped itself down on the side of the road.   There was definitely a nest and it was now sitting on it.  Or so I said.

It turned out that the Ostrich would pass by us, flop down at the side of the road, and eventually rest right in the middle of the road.  At first we just watched, not wanting to get too close.  Later, we would tip toe around it.  It would click click click then jump up and trot after us — extending its wings like cormorants trying to dry themselves.    Eventually, we walked with it.

This went on for about 5.3 kilometres.  As we rounded a bend and with civilization insight, the ostrich left us.   Walking With Ostriches.  Wow!

She’s Over It

And why the fuck shouldn’t she be? Predator is BACK. Predator Post. Hello. HELLo.

P: And why the fuck shouldn’t she be?

S: It was a rough start at school but it’s true.  I’m over it.

P: The weather is better except that the houses are not insulated so it’s cold enough to freeze the balls off a brass monkey in the mornings.  Getting warmer every day…

The food is better.  In general it just is.  The breads – she gets a fresh loaf every morning.  It could be rye sourdough, or Farmer’s white, a seed loaf or a baguette. Hot out of the oven at 7am.  Even the bagged iceberg lettuce from Woolworth is better.  It looks better: no wilted brownish edges; it is crispier and it lasts longer.  And now that She has discovered Saturday markets – oh my Lord.   She finally got the shi shi mushrooms – the porcini, from the Mushroom Man.   The Seaweed Burrito Boy gave her a list of where to buy the freshest fish; Fish From Africa in Hout Bay, the best groceries at SPAR in the Cape Quarter.  I thought he was sending her to a SPA.  I thought, well that’s  bold.

The dried out stringy rotten flesh from dead animals that hangs around all over the place – they call it biltong – is probably better than a pepperoni nitrate stick but I’m a Vegetarian Predator.   Wrap your head around that one and get back to me if you must.  Not going to try it.

The beer is not better.  She tried —  a Bees Beer? South African shandy type something that was a craft lager, with fynbos honey, lime and soda.   It was delish.

The artisanal mandarin gin — delish.

Now, for those of you that know her well,  this next one is going to be hard to swallow but it’s true – her house -at least the view, is better.

Here is the view from the toilet this morning.

Yep. Not an outhouse. No filters.

Moving on.

The Accidental End of Summer

It was partly to celebrate summer.  It was partly to compensate for a colossal miscalculation regarding the start of school in Cape Town.

I really don’t know what happened.  We just kept telling ourselves and everyone around us that it started at the end of August.  That date had absolutely nothing to do with any information given to us by the school, or any anecdotal information that reality provided.  It didn’t phase us that our neighbour’s three children in two different neighbourhood schools were all back in uniform.  It didn’t phase us that roads were all of a sudden congested and that there were no longer tennis courts reliably available in the evenings.  Nope.  We just made up a start date that suited us.  Our denial and fake date (similar to what it would have been  in Toronto) was essential  in assuring our children, who generally hated the idea of being uprooted at shunted off to Africa, that there was no need to worry.  At least summer vacation would be in tact.  Then, we reminded ourselves (and everyone around us) of the fiction so many times that it became a truth.  Then we believed it.   It didn’t matter how many people remarked on the unusual start date.  We smiled smugly and said, yeah.  That’s why we picked this school for our kids.   And so, with just over a week to go before the actual first day of school, we discovered the Truth and in addition to all of the regular stuff you have to do to get ready for a new school year, we had to break it to the kids that we made a mistake.  Not to worry, we quickly added, we would compensate with a Week of Yes.  They took it very well.

We went to movies, played tennis, gin rummy and backgammon.   We (they) ate at Burger King.  And then they thought it would be great to go to Sun City.

It had been over 20 years since apartheid ended.   We found a last minute deal.

Sun City is Atlantis on steroids– a ravenous world of consumption: gambling, shows, water rides, extreme sports, animals, safaris, golf, food, drink, more and more and endless more.  Neither the staff or the patrons were white.    We had a blast.

We rode ATV’s.


The manufacturer label clearly said NO ONE UNDER THE AGE OF 16 but we did it.   NO PASSENGERS EVER but I rode with Coco.  And it was ok.   We didn’t go as fast as everyone else.


They triple tubed.


We hung with fake animals, and captive ones and raced these dune buggy things.


But honestly, I am starting to feel sick to my stomach about this choice to move to South Africa.   I love it here.  But what do I love?   The residual infrastructure of apartheid that keeps me on top of the back side of Table mountain enjoying the view while I sip local wine from waterford?     I had a flash of panic tonight because Andrea came home and left the front door unlocked. And then there is the issue of the gate.  The gate still doesn’t electrify properly.   My children only know that a vague generic malevolence lurks and that they need to be conscious that there are desperate people “out there” and there are people who might harm them.   WTF have I done?

We go to Hockey.  It is fun.


It is an olympic sized rink in another alter universe also oriented around a casino.  The kids have a great time.   The boys are playing in the under 16 category which challenges them and Coco is playing with boys which she finds challenging so everyone is pleased.

But I can’t shake these thoughts and I’m back.  This time I’m thinking about the people I met in the settlements around Durban while researching  waterless toilets.  I’m thinking about the people of Kibera that created a dual purpose soccer field and buffer to the N’Gong River.  (The soccer field, created and maintained by the community, meant that people weren’t able to set up informal housing on the river banks which meant that the river had a little section of relief from people. When there is no infrastructure for water, or for waste, the people do what they have to do.  They use the river as a sewer).    I shove the thoughts away.

And then we had the first day of school.  Everyone was happy at drop off, looking forward to new people, new sports, and maybe even some new friends and two out of three of them were very discouraged at pick up.  One was in tears.  He wishes we could be a “normal” family.  He “doesn’t like his life anymore.”  I sing them to sleep and wonder about my fictional dates and my fictional life and WTF?

Where is Predator?

Sorry to be so morose today.